President Thomas S. Monson
First Counselor in the First Presidency
Learn from the past, prepare for the future, live in the present.
When
I was a boy I enjoyed reading Treasure Island, by Robert Louis Stevenson.
I also saw adventure movies where several individuals had separate pieces
of a well-worn map which led the way to buried treasure if only the pieces
could be found and put together.
I recall listening to a 15-minute radio program each weekday afternoon. The
program of which I speak was Jack Armstrong, the All-American Boy. It
began with the jingle, "Have you tried Wheaties, the best breakfast
food in the land?" Then, in a voice filled with mystery, there emanated
from the radio the message, "We now join Jack and Betty as they approach
the fabulous secret entry to the elephants' burial ground, where a treasure
is concealed. But wait; danger lurks on the path ahead."
Nothing could tear me away from this program. It was as though I were leading
the search for the hidden treasure of precious ivory.
At another time and in a different setting, the Savior of the world spoke
of treasure. In His Sermon on the Mount He declared:
"Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon
earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through
and steal:
"But lay up for yourselves treasures in
heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do
not break through nor steal:
"For where your treasure is, there will
your heart be also."1
The promised reward was not a treasure of ivory,
gold, or silver. Neither did it consist of acres of land or a portfolio
of stocks and bonds. The Master
spoke of riches within the grasp of alleven joy unspeakable here and
eternal happiness hereafter.
Today I have chosen to provide the three pieces of your treasure map to guide
you to your eternal happiness. They are:
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Learn from the past.
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Prepare for the future.
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Live in the present.
Let us consider each segment of the map.
First, learn from the past.
Each of us has a heritagewhether from pioneer
forebears, later converts, or others who helped to shape our lives. This
heritage provides a foundation
built of sacrifice and faith. Ours is the privilege and responsibility to
build on such firm and stable footings.
A story written by Karen Nolen, which appeared in the New Era in 1974,
tells of a Benjamin Landart who, in 1888, was 15 years old and an accomplished
violinist. Living on a farm in northern Utah with his mother and seven brothers
and sisters was sometimes a challenge to Benjamin, as he had less time than
he would have liked to play his violin. Occasionally his mother would lock
up the violin until he had his farm chores done, so great was the temptation
for Benjamin to play it.
In late 1892 Benjamin was asked to travel to Salt Lake to audition for a
place with the territorial orchestra. For him, this was a dream come true.
After several weeks of practicing and prayers, he went to Salt Lake in March
of 1893 for the much anticipated audition. When he heard Benjamin play, the
conductor, a Mr. Dean, told Benjamin he was the most accomplished violinist
he had heard west of Denver. He was told to report to Denver for rehearsals
in the fall and learned that he would be earning enough to keep himself, with
some left over to send home.
A week after Benjamin received the good news, however, his bishop called
him into his office and asked if he couldn't put off playing with the orchestra
for a couple of years. He told Benjamin that before he started earning money
there was something he owed the Lord. He then asked Benjamin to accept a mission
call.
Benjamin felt that giving up his chance to play in the territorial orchestra
would be almost more than he could bear, but he also knew what his decision
should be. He promised the bishop that if there were any way to raise the
money for him to serve, he would accept the call.
When Benjamin told his mother about the call,
she was overjoyed. She told him that his father had always wanted to serve
a mission but had been killed
before that opportunity had come to him. However, when they discussed the
financing of the mission, her face clouded over. Benjamin told her he would
not allow her to sell any more of their land. She studied his face for
a moment
and then said, "Ben, there is a way we can raise the money. This family
[has] one thing that is of great enough value to send you on your mission.
You will have to sell your violin."
Ten days later, on March 23, 1893, Benjamin wrote
in his journal: "I
awoke this morning and took my violin from its case. All day long I played
the music I love. In the evening when the light grew dim and I could see
to
play no longer, I placed the instrument in its case. It will be enough. Tomorrow
I leave [for my mission]."
Forty-five years later, on June 23, 1938, Benjamin
wrote in his journal: "The greatest decision I ever made in my life
was to give up something I dearly loved to the God I loved even more. He
has never forgotten me for
it."2
Learn from the past.
Second, prepare for the future.
We live in a changing world. Technology has altered
nearly every aspect of our lives. We must cope with these advanceseven these cataclysmic changesin
a world of which our forebears never dreamed.
Remember the promise of the Lord: "If ye
are prepared ye shall not fear."3
Fear is a deadly enemy of progress.
It is necessary to prepare and to plan so that we don't fritter away our
lives. Without a goal, there can be no real success. One of the best definitions
of success I have ever heard goes something like this: Success is the progressive
realization of a worthy ideal. Someone has said the trouble with not having
a goal is that you can spend your life running up and down the field and never
crossing the goal line.
Years ago there was a romantic and fanciful ballad
that contained the words, "Wishing will make it so / Just keep on
wishing / And care will go."4
I want to state here and now that wishing will not replace thorough preparation
to meet the trials of life. Preparation is hard work but absolutely essential
for our progress.
Our journey into the future will not be a smooth highway which stretches
from here to eternity. Rather, there will be forks and turnings in the road,
to say nothing of the unanticipated bumps. We must pray daily to a loving
Heavenly Father, who wants each of us to succeed in life.
Prepare for the future.
Third, live in the present.
Sometimes we let our thoughts of tomorrow take up too much of today. Daydreaming
of the past and longing for the future may provide comfort but will not take
the place of living in the present. This is the day of our opportunity, and
we must grasp it.
Professor Harold Hill, in Meredith Willson's The Music Man, cautioned: "You
pile up enough tomorrows, and you'll find you've collected a lot of empty
yesterdays."
There is no tomorrow to remember if we don't do something today, and to live
most fully today, we must do that which is of greatest importance. Let us
not procrastinate those things which matter most.
I recently read the account of a man who, just after the passing of his wife,
opened her dresser drawer and found there an item of clothing she had purchased
when they visited the eastern part of the United States nine years earlier.
She had not worn it but was saving it for a special occasion. Now, of course,
that occasion would never come.
In relating the experience to a friend, the husband
said, "Don't save
something only for a special occasion. Every day in your life is a special
occasion."
That friend later said those words changed her
life. They helped her to cease putting off the things most important to
her. Said she: "Now I spend
more time with my family. I use crystal glasses every day. I'll wear new
clothes to go to the supermarket if I feel like it. The words 'someday'
and 'one day'
are fading from my vocabulary. Now I take the time to call my relatives and
closest friends. I've called old friends to make peace over past quarrels.
I tell my family members how much I love them. I try not to delay or postpone
anything that could bring laughter and joy into our lives. And each morning,
I say to myself that this could be a special day. Each day, each hour,
each
minute, is special."
A wonderful example of this philosophy was shared by Arthur Gordon many years
ago in a national magazine. He wrote:
"When I was around thirteen and my brother
ten, Father had promised to take us to the circus. But at lunchtime there
was a phone call; some urgent
business required his attention downtown. We braced ourselves for disappointment.
Then we heard him say [into the phone], 'No, I won't be down. It'll have
to
wait.'
"When he came back to the table, Mother
smiled. 'The circus keeps coming back, you know,' [she said].
" 'I know,' said Father. 'But childhood doesn’t.' "5
Elder Monte J. Brough of the First Quorum of the Seventy tells of a summer
at his childhood home in Randolph, Utah, when he and his younger brother,
Max, decided to build a tree house in a large tree in the backyard. They made
plans for the most wonderful creation of their lives. They gathered building
materials from all over the neighborhood and carried them up to a part of
the tree where two branches provided an ideal location for the house. It was
difficult, and they were anxious to complete their work. The vision of the
finished tree house provided tremendous motivation for them to complete the
project.
They worked all summer, and finally in the fall
just before school began for the new year, their house was completed. Elder
Brough said he will never
forget the feelings of joy and satisfaction which were theirs when they finally
were able to enjoy the fruit of their work. They sat in the tree house,
looked
around for a few minutes, climbed down from the treeand never returned.
The completed project, as wonderful as it was, could not hold their interest
for even one day. In other words, the process of planning, gathering, building,
and workingnot the completed projectprovided the enduring satisfaction
and pleasure they had experienced.
Let us relish life as we live it and, as did Elder Brough and his brother,
Max, find joy in the journey.
The old adage "Never put off until tomorrow what you can do today"
is doubly important when it comes to expressing our love and affectionin
word and in deedto family members and friends. Said author Harriet Beecher
Stowe, "The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid
and deeds left undone."6
A poet set to verse the sorrow of opportunities forever lost. I quote a portion:
Around the corner I have a friend,
In this great city that has no end;
Yet days go by, and weeks rush on,
And before I know it, a year is gone,
And I never see my old friend’s face,
For Life is a swift and terrible race. . . .
But to-morrow comesand to-morrow goes,
And the distance between us grows and grows.
Around the corner!yet miles away . . .
"Here's a telegram, sir,"
"Jim died to-day."
And that's what we get, and deserve in the end:
Around the corner, a vanished friend.7
Just a little over a year ago, I determined that I would not put off any
longer a visit with a dear friend whom I hadn't seen for many years. I had
been meaning to visit him in California but just had not gotten around to
it.
Bob Biggers and I met when we were both in the Classification Division at
the United States Naval Training Center in San Diego, California, toward the
close of World War II. We were good friends from the beginning. He visited
in Salt Lake once before he married, and we remained friends through correspondence
from the time I was discharged in 1946. My wife, Frances, and I have exchanged
Christmas cards every year with Bob and his wife, Grace.
Finally, at the beginning of January 2002, I scheduled a stake conference
visit to Whittier, California, where the Biggers live. I telephoned my friend
Bob, now 80 years old, and arranged for Frances and me to meet him and Grace,
that we might reminisce concerning former days.
We had a delightful visit. I took with me a number of photographs which had
been taken when we were in the Navy together over 55 years earlier. We identified
the men we knew and provided each other an update on their whereabouts as
best we could. Although not a member of our Church, Bob remembered going to
a sacrament meeting with me those long years before when we were stationed
in San Diego.
As Frances and I said our good-byes to Bob and Grace, I felt an overwhelming
sense of peace and joy at having finally made the effort to see once again
a friend who had been cherished from afar throughout the years.
One day, each of us will run out of tomorrows. Let us not put off what is
most important.
Live in the present.
Your treasure map is now in place: Learn from the past, prepare for the
future, live in the present.
I conclude where I began. From our Lord and Savior:
"Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon
earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through
and steal:
"But lay up for yourselves treasures in
heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do
not break through nor steal:
"For where your treasure is, there will
your heart be also."8
My brothers and sisters, from the depths of my soul, I bear you my personal
witness: God is our Father; His Son is our Savior and Redeemer; we are led
by a prophet for our time, even President Gordon B. Hinckley.
In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
NOTES
1. Matthew
6:1921.
2.
See "Benjamin: Son of the Right Hand," New Era, May
1974, 3437.
3. D&C
38:30.
4. "Wishing Will Make It So," lyrics by B. G. DeSylva.
5. A Touch of Wonder (1974), 7778.
6. In Gorton Carruth and Eugene
Ehrlich, comp., The Harper
Book of American Quotations (1988), 173.
7. Charles Hanson Towne, "Around the Corner," in Poems
That Live Forever, sel. Hazel Felleman (1965), 128.
8. Matthew
6:1921.