Kathleen H. Hughes
First Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency
Living water heals. It nourishes and sustains. It brings peace and joy.
Early in Christ's ministry, He traveled from Jerusalem
to His boyhood home of Nazareth, in Galilee. He passed through Samaria and,
weary from His journey,
stopped
to rest at Jacob's ancient well. As Jesus waited and His disciples sought
food in a nearby town, a Samaritan woman approached the well. You know the
story. When Jesus asked for a drink, she was surprised that a Jew would make
such a request of her. For centuries Jews and Samaritans had considered themselves
enemies. But Christ told her that if she understood whom it was she was talking
to, she would ask Him for waterliving water, water that would
satisfy her thirst forever. She didn't understand, of course, and so He explained:
"Whosoever drinketh of this water shall
thirst again:
"But whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give
him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him
a well of water springing up into everlasting life" (John
4:1314).
The Samaritan woman liked the idea of never having
to drink again. Certainly, she wouldn't miss the daily labor of carrying
the heavy
water jars from the well to her home. But when Christ testified to her that
He was the Messiah and when the Spirit confirmed to her that it was true,
she began to comprehend that Jesus was speaking of greater truths. She
left
the well water behind and hurried away to seek others who might come and
listen. I doubt, however, at least at that point, that she fully understoodor whether
we fully understandwhat it means to have a wellspring of living water
within us.
Living water heals. It nourishes and sustains. It brings peace
and joy.
A woman I know was struggling with anger toward
someone who had hurt her and her family. Though she told her children not
to become embittered
and resentful, she fought those feelings herself. After weeks of entreating
her Father in Heaven, she finally felt a change. She related: "One
day, in the midst of my nearly constant prayers, the healing came. I felt
a physical
sensation spread through my body. After, I felt a sense of security and peace.
I knew that regardless of what happened, my family and I would be all right.
The anger left me and so did my desire for retaliation."
The living water is the gospel of Jesus Christ;
its communicator is the Holy Ghost. My friend knew what was right. She
had said the appropriate
words to her family. But only when she humbled herself enough to drink of
the waterto feel the Holy Spiritcould she begin to heal.
As I have met with many women this last yearand their priesthood
leadersI have heard numerous accounts of Christ's healing power. There
is so much suffering in mortality, so many causes for pain. I know people
who have sent loved ones into harm's way and who daily pray for their safety
in battle. I talk to parents who are frightened for their children, aware
of the temptations they face. I have dear friends who are suffering from
the
ravaging effects of chemotherapy. I know single parents, abandoned by spouses,
who are rearing children alone. I have dealt myself with the debilitating
effects of depression. But I have learned from my own experience, and I learn
from those I meet, that we are never left to our own resources. We are never
abandoned. A wellspring of goodness, of strength and confidence is within
us, and when we listen with a feeling of trust, we are raised up. We are
healed.
We not only survive, but we love life. We laugh; we enjoy; we go forward
with faith.
The living water also nourishes. I testify to
you that just as He promises, Christ comes to all who are heavy laden;
He gives us rest
(see Matthew 11:28). He sustains us when we are weary. A wellspring is a
flowing well, offering continual refreshmentif we drink of it. Pride
can destroy its effects, as can mere inattention. But those who drink deeply
not only
become whole themselves, but they become a fountain to others, as one spirit
nurtures and feeds another.
Last year a dear family friend passed away. Lucile
was 89 years old and had been a widow for more than 20 years. She was not
a rich
woman, she was not famous, and most of the world knew nothing of her passing.
But her family knew. Her neighbors knew. The members of her ward knew.
For
all who had experienced her love, her death had left the world a diminished
place. During her years as a widow, Lucile had endured difficult challenges,
including the death of a beloved grandson and infirmities brought on by
age.
But Lucile continued to nourish everyone she knew with her spirit; with her
baked goods, her quilts and afghans; with her humor and goodwill. And she
loved to work in the temple. One spring day in 1981, she wrote in her journal: "This
morning at 3:30 a.m.,
as I was walking up the path to the temple, I watched the flag gently blowing
in the breeze and looked at the beautiful sky and thought how happy I was
to be there. I felt sad for all the people who [were] sleeping and
missing the awakening of a beautiful day."
Most of us don't think the world is "awakening"
at 3:30 in the morning, and we're perfectly happy to roll over in bed about
then and allow Lucile to feel sorry for us. But what an attitude! Only a flow
of goodness from within could explain it. Did she possess this purity of spirit
at 15, at 25, or even 55? I don't know. In most cases, it probably takes a
lifetime of listening to the Holy Ghost before we know God's voice so well
and before we trust in the living waters enough to taste them throughout the
entire dayespecially a day that begins at 3:30 a.m.
But I believe the living waters sustained Lucile during those long years when
she might have given way to self-pity, and her life, her spirit, became nourishment
to everyone she knew.
The living waters can bring peace and joy even
when the wellspring within us seems to have dried. Recently I heard of
a woman whose son, suffering
from emotional illness, died unexpectedly. The family was devastated. The
mother couldn't imagine that she could ever know happiness again. But she
was blessed by the service of a young woman, one of her former Laurel girlsnow
a young Relief Society sister and her visiting teacherwho said, "You
helped me; now I'll help youand we'll get through this together." Peace,
even joy, began to return to her life.
It may take a lifetimeand longerto
refine our spirits fully, but the living water is available to all, including
the young. I'm
inspired when I watch young women of the Church, after receiving spiritual
training from childhood, enter the Relief Society and immediately bring
added
strength to more experienced women. I'm overjoyed when I watch those same
young women realize how much they can learn from women older than themselves.
Peace comes to us from the Lord, but we can help each other feel that peace
as we share our burdens and our happiness.
Christ's promise is simple and sublime: "Peace I leave
with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you.
Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid" (John
14:27).
Brothers and sisters, turmoil is raging all about us. Economies are in distress;
families are struggling; we are living in, as President Hinckley has said,
"perilous times" ("The
Times in Which We Live,"
Ensign, Nov. 2001, 72; Liahona, Jan. 2002, 83). But the living
waters still offer peace and joy. When we live righteously, when we have
done
all we can do, one of the gifts we receive is confidence. The Lord tells
us, "Be still and know that I am God" (D&C 101:16). In the midst
of chaos, we must pause. We must listen for the Spirit that tells us, "All
is well!" ("Come, Come, Ye Saints," Hymns, no. 30) just
as the early Saints had to do. There is cause to be concerned, but there is
greater reason to be at peace.
The Samaritan woman looked into the face of Christ,
listened to His voice, and recognized Him at a time when most others rejected
all He
taught. We know Him too, or we can, if we allow His healing power, His nourishing
strength, His peace and joy, to flow through us like "a well of water
springing up into everlasting life." That we may do so is my prayer,
in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.