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Q&A Index (1988–2006)


“Q&A Index (1988–2006),”  Liahona,  Jun 1982

A

Activation

Fellowshipping less-active friends, July 2000 

Addictions

Pornography is ruining my life, Aug. 2005 

Adversity

Kids make fun of me because of the Church, Apr. 2006 

Life is so hard, Aug. 2006 

Bad things happen to good people, July 2003 

Keeping commandments doesn’t seem to make me better off than others, June 2001 

Bad things happen to innocent people, Dec. 1998 

Dealing with adversity, Aug. 1997 

Why is life so easy for some people and so hard for others?, July 1989 

Agency

List of commandments, Aug. 2003 

Exercising agency, Apr. 2000 

Counsel and agency, Sept. 1997 

Anger

Good sportsmanship, Jan. 1997 

Returning insults, May 1995 

Controlling tongue, May 1992 

Controlling my temper, Oct. 1990 

B

Belonging

My parents are divorced, Dec. 2006 

My friend doesn’t feel welcome at church, Feb. 2006 

Don’t fit in because parents are divorced, Dec. 2002 

I don’t fit in at church, Dec. 1991 

I don’t feel as if I belong, Sept. 1988 

C

Callings

Making quorum activities more appealing, Aug. 2001 

Handling new callings, Aug. 2000 

Careers

What should I do with my life?, July 2005 

Deciding on a career, Feb. 1992 

Chastity

Explaining the law of chastity to my friends, Dec. 2000 

Church

The only true Church, May 2005 

Less-active kids get attention, Apr. 1998 

Boring Sunday School classes, July 1998 

Are some active Church members hypocrites?, Mar. 1998 

Staying involved in Church with less-active parents, Oct. 1996 

Why don’t we have crosses on our churches?, Sept. 1996 

Comfort

Finding peace, Apr. 2004 

My mother died. Where do I find peace?, Apr. 1990 

Criticism of the Church

Kids make fun of me because of the Church, Apr. 2006 

Friends say I don’t believe in the real Jesus, Apr. 1999 

Kids at school tearing down the Church, May 1990 

D

Dating

Having a boyfriend or girlfriend before 16, Sept. 2005 

Hanging out a lot before 16, Apr. 2002 

Dating one person, Sept. 2002 

Why no dating before 16?, Feb. 2001 

No LDS people to date, July 2001 

Getting a date, Aug. 1998 

Dating for fun, May 1996 

Dating before 16, July 1995 

Young and in love, Dec. 1992 

Being at ease with the opposite sex, Dec. 1990 

Death

My mother died. Where do I find peace?, Apr. 1990 

Depression

I feel sad all the time, Jan. 2002 

Combating discouragement, Dec. 1999 

Helping friends have a positive attitude, Nov. 1996 

Gospel and happiness, Dec. 1994 

I feel so hopeless. Why go on living?, Jan. 1990 

Changing low self-esteem, Mar. 1990 

Divorce

My parents are divorced, Dec. 2006 

Don’t fit in because parents are divorced, Dec. 2002 

Parents divorcing, Oct. 1999 

Divorce and temple marriage, July 1994 

F

Family

Brothers and sisters make fun of me, Sept. 2006 

Need a clean room, Mar. 2005 

Encouraging family home evening, Oct. 2005 

Staying close to my dad, Feb. 2004 

How do I tell my family I love them?, Nov. 2004 

Arguing with parents, Jan. 2003 

Reaching out to a brother, June 2003 

Getting along with siblings, Dec. 2001 

Sharing a room, May 2001 

Parents worried about my surfing the Internet, Feb. 2000 

Preparing to be sealed in the temple, Mar. 2000 

Brothers and sisters fight, Jan. 1999 

Parents divorcing, Oct. 1999 

Making friends with brothers and sisters, Jan. 1998 

Parents don’t like friend, June 1998 

Parents worry too much, Nov. 1998 

Improving family spirituality, Dec. 1996 

Sabbath activities and family, Nov. 1994 

Less-active family, Nov. 1993 

Improving relations with my brother, July 1992 

Problems at home, June 1991 

My mother died. Where do I find peace?, Apr. 1990 

How can I get my parents to ease up?, June 1990 

Being grouchy at home, Apr. 1989 

How can my dad and I agree about music?, Feb. 1989 

Fasting

Should I pay fast offerings even if it isn’t much?, May 2003 

I don’t get much out of fasting, Oct. 1993 

Forgiveness

Returning insults, May 1995 

Forgiving a friend who hurt me, Jan. 1989 

Friends

Church members my age are mean to me, Aug. 2002 

Keeping standards while being accepted by nonmember friends, Jan. 2001 

Finding friends, Sept. 2000 

Parents don’t like friend, June 1998 

Developing friendships, Sept. 1998 

Making things right after revealing a friend’s secret, Apr. 1997 

Shyness, Sept. 1995 

Convincing friend there is a God, Aug. 1994 

How can I change friends?, Mar. 1994 

Friend has bad pictures in his room, May 1994 

Handling criticism of Church standards, Oct. 1994 

Friends who don’t get along, Apr. 1991 

Making friends, Aug. 1991 

Helping friends change, Jan. 1991 

What can I do to make sure that I won’t give in to temptation?, July 1990 

How can I choose friends carefully without judging?, Nov. 1989 

Is it all right to have non-LDS friends?, Dec. 1988 

G

Gossip

Is it gossip if it’s true?, Dec. 1997 

H

Honesty

I have a habit of lying, Nov. 2006 

People at school ask to cheat off of me, Sept. 2001 

Cheating at school, Nov. 1997 

Lying about age, Oct. 1995 

Lying to spare someone’s feelings, Mar. 1993 

Cheating in school, Sept. 1991 

Humanitarian Service

Helping the homeless, Jan. 1993 

J

Jesus Christ

Preparing for the Second Coming, May 2006 

How can I always remember Him?, Jan. 2005 

Meaningful Christmas gifts, Dec. 2003 

Thinking of Christ, Nov. 2001 

Journals

I’m not a good writer. Do I need to keep a journal?, Sept. 2003 

Keeping a journal, Aug. 1992 

L

Language

Is swearing all that bad?, Mar. 2001 

Avoiding profanity, Oct. 2001 

Swearing, Feb. 1995 

I have a problem with swearing, Nov. 1988 

M

Mission

Prepared to teach on a mission, Jan. 2006 

Mission decision, Feb. 2002 

Nervous about serving a mission, June 2000 

Blessings of a mission, Aug. 1999 

Supporting missionaries, Feb. 1997 

Serving a mission versus school and employment, Nov. 1992 

Missionary service, May 1991 

Encouraging a boyfriend to go on a mission, Nov. 1990 

I’m shy. How can I be a missionary?, June 1989 

Missionary Work

Prepared to teach on a mission, Jan. 2006 

Introducing the Book of Mormon to a friend, June 2006 

Friend can’t believe the Joseph Smith story, Dec. 2005 

Overcoming fear of sharing the gospel, Feb. 2005 

My friend is more interested in me than the gospel, Aug. 2004 

Friends want to debate about the Church, Mar. 2004 

Talking to my friend about the Church, Mar. 2002 

Is my nonmember friend interested in the gospel or just me?, May 2000 

Being an example to Church members who are not keeping standards, Oct. 2000 

Being a good example to my friend, Feb. 1999 

Helping nonmember friends feel comfortable in church, Mar. 1999 

Teaching the gospel, Mar. 1995 

P

Patriarchal Blessings

Preparing for a patriarchal blessing, May 2002 

Should I get my patriarchal blessing?, Mar. 1992 

Pioneers

Pioneer challenges, July 1997 

Pioneer ancestors, July 1996 

Pornography

Pornography is ruining my life, Aug. 2005 

Prayer

I don’t seem to get answers to prayers, July 2002 

Repetition in prayer, Apr. 1996 

Prayer answered, Apr. 1993 

Prayer before competition, Jan. 1992 

Priesthood

Preparing for the Melchizedek Priesthood, Oct. 2003 

Preparing for the priesthood, Nov. 2002 

I know a priest who drinks. Should I tell the bishop?, May 1993 

Procrastination

Procrastination, Mar. 1991 

R

Relationships

How to act toward people I dislike, Oct. 1991 

Repentance

How can I repent if I don’t feel sorry?, July 2006 

Knowing you’re forgiven, Nov. 2005 

Showing friends a change of heart after conversion, July 2004 

How do I know when I’ve been forgiven?, Feb. 2003 

Repentance sounds hard, Oct. 1998 

Steps of repentance, Oct. 1997 

Always repenting for the same things, Apr. 1995 

How can I repent?, Oct. 1992 

Finding courage to confess to the bishop, Oct. 1989 

Reverence

Deacon in my quorum is disruptive, Oct. 2002 

Irreverent attitudes, Sept. 1994 

S

Sabbath

Working on the Sabbath, June 2004 

Performing on the Sabbath, May 1999 

Sabbath activities and family, Nov. 1994 

Sacrament

Worthy to take the sacrament, Mar. 1997 

School

Cheating at school, Nov. 1997 

Parents’ expectations and school, Sept. 1992 

Cheating in school, Sept. 1991 

I hate school. Why shouldn’t I just drop out?, Sept. 1990 

Scriptures

Getting more out of scripture study, June 2005 

Diligently study scriptures, Dec. 1995 

Bible study, June 1995 

Scripture study, July 1991 

Self-Esteem

How can I gain confidence?, Apr. 2005 

Why am I not attractive?, Dec. 2004 

Developing talents, Jan. 1996 

I think I’m ugly, Mar. 1996 

Comparing self to others, Aug. 1995 

Bad acne, June 1992 

Weight problems, Feb. 1991 

Changing low self-esteem, Mar. 1990 

Seminary

Getting up for early morning seminary is hard, Apr. 2001 

Staying spiritually fit, June 1999 

Spirituality

How do I recognize the Spirit?, Sept. 2004 

Recognizing inspiration, Apr. 2003 

Feeling inspiration, Nov. 1999 

Prayer answered, Apr. 1993 

Feeling the Spirit, Feb. 1993 

How can I tell the promptings of the Spirit?, Mar. 1989 

Sports

Good sportsmanship, Jan. 1997 

Standards

What’s wrong with getting a tattoo?, Mar. 2006 

Judging others’ dress, Jan. 2004 

Music, modesty, and dancing, Nov. 2003 

Keeping commandments doesn’t seem to make me better off than others, June 2001 

Parents worried about my surfing the Internet, Feb. 2000 

Renting videos, Feb. 1998 

Graduation party, May 1998 

Song lyrics, June 1997 

Counsel and agency, Sept. 1997 

Popular styles and standards, Aug. 1996 

Thinking of getting a tattoo, June 1996 

Watching soap operas, Feb. 1994 

Handling criticism of Church standards, Oct. 1994 

Keeping Church standards without appearing self-righteous, June 1993 

Picking reading material, Sept. 1993 

Stress

Coping with stress, Nov. 2000 

Parents’ expectations and school, Sept. 1992 

Is it possible to be burned out at 15?, Oct. 1988 

T

Talents

Developing talents, Jan. 1996 

Temple

Importance of temples, Jan. 1994 

Divorce and temple marriage, July 1994 

Temptation

Strong urges to do wrong, Feb. 1990 

What can I do to make sure that I won’t give in to temptation?, July 1990 

Testimony

People are questioning my decision to join the Church, Oct. 2006 

Overcoming fear of sharing the gospel, Feb. 2005 

I think I have a testimony but have doubts, June 2002 

Staying spiritually fit, June 1999 

Testimony of the Church, Feb. 1996 

Knowing that Jesus is the Savior, Apr. 1994 

Convincing friend there is a God, Aug. 1994 

Joseph Smith’s vision, June 1994 

Bearing testimony, Dec. 1993 

I feel pressure to bear a testimony I’m unsure of, Sept. 1989 

Thoughts

Dirty jokes, Nov. 1995 

Bad thoughts, May 1989 

Tithing

Tithing and mission money, Mar. 2003 

My tithing doesn’t make much difference. Should I still pay?, July 1999 

V

Violence

Is self-defense wrong?, July 1993 

W

Word of Wisdom

Performance-enhancing supplements for sports, May 2004 

Trying alcohol and tobacco, Apr. 1992 

World

Finding peace, Apr. 2004 

End of the world, Jan. 2000 

Everything is going wrong in the world, Sept. 1999 

Keeping good feelings while surrounded by bad, May 1997 

Hooked on shopping, Jan. 1995 

Is it wrong to be rich?, Nov. 1991 

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