Family Home Evening™ Quick Tips
Reclaiming Monday Nights
Ensign, July
2002, 73
In
the past, our family was “hit and miss” with family home evening.
By the time we had dinner and gathered everyone together, we generally
fell into the habit of playing a game and eating ice cream. As our children
have grown older, we have needed a more structured, gospel-centered family
home evening. Shortly after a letter from the First Presidency was read
in Church urging families to reclaim Mondays for family home evening,
we set a family goal to “get serious” about family night.
We use the Family Home Evening Resource Book (item no. 31106, U.S.
$5.00), Gospel Principles (31110, U.S. $2.75), and other Church
materials to plan our lessons. We also add ideas to meet our family’s
needs. Following are some of our favorite activities that help us to hold
family home evening regularly:
Magazine Monday. This is our favorite
activity! We each read our age-appropriate Church magazine in advance.
Then we each report on our favorite article. We have had many wonderful
gospel discussions based on the articles we have read. It’s hard
to end these home evenings, since someone usually says, “Wait. I
have just one more thing I want to share!” We have gained many insights
into our children’s understanding by listening to them and then
discussing the articles they have chosen.
Family Preparedness Night. As a family
we discussed our preparedness needs, and everyone selected an emergency-preparedness
topic to research. We then planned which night we would each present a
topic. Our teenager chose fire safety. She charted fire-escape routes
for our home and made sure we bought new fire extinguishers. During one
Family Preparedness Night when we had planned to talk about poison safety,
we inadvertently learned about tornadoes instead! In Idaho tornadoes are
not common, but that evening we experienced a severe storm. We learned
firsthand that we had enough food, water, candles, and blankets. However,
we had no batteries for our radios, so we were not able to track the storm’s
progress. Will we be prepared next time? Yes!
Prophet Night. We have enjoyed learning
about President Gordon B. Hinckley’s life as we have read the books
written by him or about him. We also watch conference addresses so we
can listen to our prophet’s voice.
Family Friendshipping Night. Our family
is relatively new to our area, so we have started inviting other families
to share our fourth Monday. We have a lesson, an activity, and a treat.
We have made many new friends, and it’s a great way to share gospel
discussions with others. During this evening, we also look for opportunities
to serve others and share the gospel. Inviting nonmembers and less-active
members for a fun-filled evening is an effective way to befriend and fellowship
them!
Our family has been blessed as we have reclaimed
Monday evenings for family night. Each week we look forward to learning
the gospel together, building our testimonies, strengthening our family—and,
yes, eating ice cream!
—Joy M. Sorensen, Woodhaven Ward,
Taylor Mountain Idaho Stake
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